Michelle Obama’s womanhood isn’t a question. Josh Hokit’s idea of manhood is.

President Donald Trump celebrated his 80th birthday with UFC fights on the White House lawn, which many saw as classless and a reflection of his broader brand of toxic masculinity. The event drew a crowd of thousands of UFC fans, who were largely enthralled by Josh Hokit's post-fight interview.

The Problem with Toxic Masculinity

Many in the audience were exposed to misogynoir, or misogyny-informed racist tropes, as Hokit spoke about Michelle Obama being called "a man." This was a stark reminder of how deeply ingrained misogynoir is, and how it can be perpetuated by people who claim to promote equality. In her 2018 book "Becoming," former First Lady Michelle Obama writes candidly about the insults she has faced over the years.

Toxic Masculinity in Action

Hokit's actions were a perfect example of toxic masculinity in action. By repeatedly using derogatory language, particularly towards Black women, Hokit was embodying the machismo that drives the manosphere. His desire for validation and approval from others is a hallmark of this toxic culture.

The Intersection of Toxic Masculinity and Misogyny

Trump's repeated emphasis on traditional masculine ideals has been linked to misogynoir and transphobia. This toxic mix can be seen in Hokit's words, which "derogated, arguably, the most high-profile Black woman in the United States while at an event teeming with hyper-masculine behavior."

Conclusion

The juxtaposition of Hokit's actions with Trump's larger persona is telling. While Trump has claimed to promote traditional masculinity, he has also been a vocal supporter of toxic masculinity and misogyny. Hokit's statement was a perfect example of this double standard, as he sought validation from others while denying any accountability for his words.

By examining the intersection of toxic masculinity and misogynoir-informed racist tropes, we can see how Trump's broader brand of toxic masculinity has had far-reaching consequences. Hokit's actions serve as a reminder that our culture is built on the reinforcement of these harmful ideals.